Why Should
You Date
A Stripper ?
I get this question a lot:
"Dude, why should I date a stripper? Aren't they all crazy/diseased/drama queens/etc.?"
Well, that's certainly not true.
Look -- Strippers are FUN!
I have NEVER been on a boring date with a woman who danced for a living.
They either like to party, or they like to get freaky in the bedroom (or both!).
So when I get asked this question, I usually respond by saying:
"Its something every man should experience."
I truly believe that every man should date a stripper at least ONCE IN HIS LIFE!
Because one of two things will happen:
He'll either have the best time of his life...
OR
He'll have the worst time of his life!
Either way, he'll know whether or not dating strippers is something he'll want to keep doing!
But remember, no matter what you decide to do, if you date a stripper, follow these few guidelines for your own protection...
ALWAYS wear protection when you're getting your freak on. This isn't just with strippers, this is with ANY girl. Not just to protect you from disease, but to be sure you're not stuck paying child support for 18 years of your life.
NEVER allow yourself to be sucked into a woman's drama. If she's too crazy, leave her and find another one. Drama can make your life miserable.
NEVER spend lots of money on the girl you're dating. This means no trips to Europe, no lavish shopping sprees, NOTHING. Buy her dinner every once in a while and give her gifts on holidays, otherwise, guard your wallet with your life.
If you follow those three simple guidelines, dating a stripper can be an immensely fun and rewarding experience.
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----------------------------------------------------------------------Seduction Tips -
5 Important Steps
to Follow
Here’s the five core, basic steps of a seduction :
First open the girl or her group.
Second, build your social value to the girl.
Third, once you have social value, screen and accept her.
Fourth, isolate the girl away from her friends.
And fifth, build comfort with the girl.
You’ll want to progress through the steps – open, build your social value, screen and accept, isolate, and build comfort - in basically that order.
Where a lot of guys go wrong is that they SKIP some of these critical, core steps – and consequently fumble the seduction even though they do everything else right!
In this report I’m going to show you WHAT happens when you skip steps – and WHY girls are less likely to sleep with you if you do.
Skipping step 1– Not Opening
The consequences of not opening are obvious – you’ll never meet anyone! You always need to open – ALWAYS. Don’t wait for girls to talk to you or wait for them to give you a “sign”. Read Opening Magic if you have trouble in this area.
Skipping step 2 - Not Building Social Value
A HUGE problem I see with a lot of guys is that they jump right into comfort building before they’ve built any social value to the girl.
Guys who girls consider to be “just friends” chronically skip the building social value step. The guy acts like another girlfriend, listening to all of the girl’s problems and being there to comfort her. The guy is there to really feel for her and listen to her and swap personal stories and experiences with her.
The problem is, the guy doesn’t have any social value to the girl by being simply “comfortable”. Yes, she *is* comfortable around him – she may even feel a special connection with him - but she’s not attracted to him sexually either!
When this same guy goes to a club, he opens the girl and tries to build that feeling of comfort right away with her. He jumps right into talking about instant connections, personal stories, and mining for the girl's values.
This strategy of building comfort doesn’t work – not if you don’t already have social value with the girl first.
Instead, you come across as a “nice guy”, a guy who is being overly nice and caring to get into her pants.
To illustrate, imagine you were lost in a strange city and a homeless man off the street you didn’t know – someone with no social value to you – came up to you and started giving you directions. He is being really “nice” to you. Still, you probably won’t feel in any mood of making an “instant connection” with him, because you’re betting that the only reason he’s being nice is to ask you for some money.
Likewise, if you have no social value to a girl and you jump directly into comfort with her, she may suspect you have ulterior motives. Of course, sometimes going straight into comfort building with a girl WILL work. Let's say you walk into a bar and start talking about instant connections with a girl or boring small talk - and she responds! However, even here, a girl is responding to the social value that she perceives you have – from your strong nonverbal cues, a strong entrance, and your good looks – not to the content of your comfort building.
And generally, immediate comfort building will not work at all on extremely beautiful women who have lots of guys after them. Extremely beautiful will block your attempts to build comfort with them by shutting you out - unless you’ve built sufficient social value to them first.
Skipping step 3 - Not Screening and Accepting
Another problem is when guys skip screening and acceptance. They go from building attraction and jump directly into isolating the girl and building comfort with her.
However, if you skip screening and acceptance, you might have TOO MUCH social value to her while you try to build comfort.
Remember, while building social value, you’re increasing yours (through social proof, leading her friends, nonverbal cues, etc) while simultaneously decreasing hers (ignoring her, teasing her). Your social value moves up while hers moves down. If you jump directly into comfort building without screening and accepting her, there’s a social value mismatch. Your social value and her social value don’t match – in fact, yours might be so high she’ll be wondering why such a cool, attractive guy is opening up to her on a personal level.
She may suspect you’re suddenly interested in her over her friends just to sleep with her. She’ll feel you’ll just sleep with her and then dump her, because she doesn't understand why you chose her - causing her to resist you. That’s why you need to screen and ACCEPT a girl. Accepting a girl means giving her green lights back. Like saying, “Wow, I didn’t realize you were so creative and intelligent… and you dress cool too – jeez, I think I’m beginning to really like you (hug).”
Once you’ve accepted her, she’ll feel like there’s a legitimate REASON that you isolated her from her friends and are opening up to her. She’ll feel like she’s EARNED your attention. She’ll feel like her social value is on par with yours. And she won’t feel like you’re just talking to her because you want to sleep with her, but because you’re a socially valuable person who has met another socially valuable person - her.
Skipping step 4 - Not Isolating
Another problem is when guys don’t isolate the girl from her friends, and try to build comfort right there in front of the girl’s group.
Here's what happens: the guy builds attraction in front of the girl’s friends, screens and accepts the girl, and then starts going into comfort right there in front of the entire group. And here's the snag: if you try to build comfort one-on-one with a girl in front of her friends, her friends will try to stop you.
Remember, building comfort with someone is primarily a one-on-one process. It’s an intimate interaction. 90% of your energy has to be focused on the person you’re building comfort and deep rapport with. Meanwhile you have to ignore her friends, who just minutes ago you were entertaining. Her friends will quickly get BORED while you build comfort with the girl you like. They might even get JEALOUS.
They’ll want to win back your attention by interrupting and distracting you. They’ll try everything in their power to break up your one-on-one interaction with the girl you like and pull you back into the building social value phase. Or they might even pull your girl away from you and leave once they realize that they’re no longer the center of attention.
Once you have social value with the girl and have screened and accepted her, isolate her from her friends!
Skipping step 5 - Not Building Comfort
Another slip up guys make is not taking the time to build comfort with a girl, one-on-one, apart from her group. Again, here's what happens: the guy builds his social value by entertaining her friends, having social proof, teasing the girl, and so on, and then immediately tries to isolate the girl to take her home for sex. He just skips comfort building altogether.
The problem with this is, although you may seem like a cool guy to the girl, and she’s attracted to you, you’re still just a “fun club guy”. She doesn’t really know anything about you. You’re almost more like a larger than life cartoon character to her. You’re not a real person to her. So even though she might feel highly attracted to you, she also feels no real connection with you as a real human being either.
It’s as if Brad Pitt walked into the club, walked up to the girl he liked, pulled her into the club bathroom (isolation) and started groping her all over. Yeah, she would feel attraction but she might also might feel cheap and valueless that all Brad Pitt wanted from her was sex - without even asking her name or spending the time to get to know her!
If you are just an attractive club guy to her, with no real connection, even if she did sleep with you, she’d feel guilty about it afterward. If you are just an attractive club guy to her, with no real connection, even if you do get her number, she may feel weird talking to you later on the phone outside of the alternative-reality club environment.
That’s why it’s so important to build comfort and build a one-on-one personal connection with a girl – otherwise you’ll come across as a player who is not interested in the girl for whom she is as a person, but interested in her only for sex.
Does that mean if you skip a step, you’ll never get laid?
No, of course not!
If you skip any of these steps you can still pull off successful seductions.
If you jump right into comfort building and skip all the other steps, you might already have enough social value from your looks, non verbal, and the balls you had to approach her alone. But this will not usually work on the more socially valuable and beautiful girls – you risk coming off as looking like another “nice guy”.
If you skip screening and acceptance she might be wondering why you’re opening up to her in the comfort stage, especially when you have so much social value and she hasn’t earned your respect yet – so maybe you’re just talking to her for sex. The seduction can still work, but you’ll lose some girls unless you screen and accept them.
If you skip isolation, it makes your job of building comfort that much more difficult, and any number of distractions from her friends could get in the way.
And if you skip comfort, you’ll come across as a “club guy” or a player. Party chicks may sleep with you just based on the attraction of your social value, but you’ll lose the girls who like to feel some kind of personal connection with a guy before they sleep with him.
As you can see, you can skip ANY of these steps and still have successful seductions. But your success rate will drop. For maximum success, you have to execute ALL five of the core steps.
But that doesn’t mean each of the five steps has to take any amount of time.
For some girls, the building social value stage might only need to last three minutes before they’re incredibly attracted to you – while for other girls, it may take twenty or more minutes.
You can screen and accept a girl in less than one minute – or drag it out for five.
And for some party girls, all they need to know is your name to feel comfortable having sex with you – while most other girls you’ll need to build comfort with them for at least twenty minutes if not for a few hours.
As you can see, seducing beautiful women with consistent and reliable results, is not the kind of thing you’re going to master overnight. It's a SKILL that takes some PRACTICE. And it just takes some time to get good at all the steps so that it all feels easy and natural.
Now here's my offer to you: If you give yourself the time, I’ll give you the knowledge and techniques of how to succeed at it.
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How ToPick up Women
Tips and tricks on how to pick up women and seduce womenI have been hanging around at clubs and singles bar for about 3 years now and want you to share the experiences I've had. If you want to know the basics on how to pick up women and some advanced techniques to make girls stay then you have come to the right place!
I have aimed a number of articles in this site at singles who want to learn about the methods that I used. Having a set of well proven methods defined means that you can easily do enough practice to be ready to seduce any women you want in a few months.
Being a great seducer means using the appropriate technique to maximize the success rate and able to bypass subconscious defenses and barriers built into women's mind in order to "protect" herself from men who try to "pick them up"
- you need to know how to overcome woman's rejection
- increase a woman's interest
- immediate respect
- get women's phone number without asking for it
- try to avoid tragic mistake nearly all men make when they first meet a women
I have included all the basics on tips and some more advanced techniques on how to pick up women on this site so click around and enjoy!
Here's a little intro on how to pick up women techniques :
I guess most of us have been meeting saleswomen in our workplace or department stores. When they try to sell us something, this is the right time to know them and even ask them out for a date. The most famous piece of technique (and still one of the best to practice on) is the Card Method. This method allows us to get their phone number without much barriers. She is willing to give you !
Just let her start all her sales pitch and later shows that you are interested in knowing more by asking sensible question. After that, try to end the conversation by pretending you are in hurry. Then tell her you are interested in more details and request for a business card and contact her later.
Your next step is to call her again arranging where to meet for lunch or dinner. I must admit that this is a sneaky way but we need to grab hold of all opportunity that comes our way to meet and attract beautiful women.
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Successful
first dates tips
1. Arrive on time
Not too early, not too late, right on time. This indicates to her that you have your stuff together.
2. Be polite
Be polite to her and everyone else you encounter (waiters, movie attendants, etc.). No one likes or appreciates a jerk.
3. Relax
If you sense that you are getting nervous take a few deep breaths and remind yourself that you are the man and that you are deciding whether or not this girl is worthy of your time. It is important that you concentrate on just having fun. This girl likes you or she wouldn't be with you right now.
4. Tip well
A sign of class. Never, ever skimp on a tip. Tip at the very least 15%.
5. Be decisive
Have a plan. You absolutely MUST avoid, at all costs, ever saying, "I don't know what do you want to do?" Don't second-guess yourself, make excuses or apologize every time you make a small mistake.
6. Shut-up
Try to keep the conversation focused on her. She should do about 70% of all the talking. It is a well known fact that most people enjoy talking about themselves and dislike hearing someone else talk about themselves too much. You may be tempted, if the conversation starts to run out, to tell her all about your family, your pet dog, etc. but you MUST restrain yourself.
7. End on a good note
Say something funny and then get out of there. Don't wait for the date to become boring. If you sense that things are winding down it is better to end while everyone is in a good mood than to risk waiting until she is tired, bored and annoyed.
8. Don't be afraid to disagree
Don't be afraid to say the word "no" or "I disagree" on a date. Women like to know that you have a backbone and will NOT like you more if you are a "yes man" (a.k.a. "doormat")
9. Don't act needy
Very few things will drive a woman away faster. You don't have to be right by her side the whole night and don't be afraid of talking to other people. Also, don't act possessive if she decides to wander away and talk to someone else.
10. Be mindful of non-verbal communication
Don't get tense because this is a big indicator of a lack of confidence. Stand up straight, articulate, look her (and everyone else) in the eye. Women don't like to think that their man is easily scared and intimidated.
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Cheap Date Ideas
There are a few basic considerations in planning a cheap date with a girl - how cheap it ishow much fun you can have
- how much you can learn about her
- how much fun she has
Movies are too cliche and there is no opportunity to learn about one another. A dinner date can be extremely boring if you are with the wrong person and you probably don't feel like wasting a lot of money on some girl you aren't even sure you like yet. It's also important that they two of you have a good time together, right ?
So what's the first date that makes you unique, practically guarantees that the two of you will have a good time together and doesn't cost an arm and a leg ?
Cheap Date Fun Idea
A 'LIVE' Comedy Show.
Admission will be around $20. That's cheap to most people. Even if your date ends up being a mind-numbing, uptight tree-hugger you will have a great time. On the other hand, if she's your kind of woman she will be having the time of her life as well. And you know what they say about positive association.
To top it all off you will learn A LOT about her. Not only do you discover if she has your sense of humor, comedians bring up all kinds of great topics (politics, gender roles, race, religion, etc.) and with a little observation you can glean all kinds of useful information about her by how she reacts to the different jokes.
So basically, it's a cheap date that will help you decide whether or not she's a keeper. If she is you will have shown her what a fun guy you are to be with. If not, at least you had a good time.
It doesn't matter if it is a cheap date or expensive date. Importantly, you need to make the date interesting so you can ensure a second date.
Get more dating tips and tricks in Instant Attraction Program.
Going out for dinner and a movie is undoubtedly one of the most popular dates couples experience. However, it is also one of the very worst -- especially for couples who are early in the dating stage. I'll explain why those dates are potentially harmful to your relationship and how you can plan a far more creative date with less money.
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Good Pick Up
Lines for Guys
According to a University of Chicago study, "hi" is the best opening line there is, followed by "how do you like the band?" (but only if a band is, in fact, playing).
All the cutsie lines you've heard--"Is heaven missing a couple of angels? 'Cause I can see them bouncing around inside your blouse,"--don't work any better, and usually work quite a bit worse. Even if the cutsie line does work, you are still left with the same basic problem--"there's a human being in front of me, what do I say?" "Hi" works the best at getting you to that point.
But what if the woman you want to say "hi" to isn't anywhere near you, and you'd have to go up to her. What do you do then?
Try the "goodbye introduction." This is a cousin of the "goodbye compliment,".
Imagine you are at the gym, and you see a woman who is really attractive to you. But she's busy lifting weights, and it seems like your gym is not such a friendly place, anyway. The opportunity is this: time your leaving the gym for when she is between sets, or stretching. Then on your way out, introduce yourself like this (smile while you do it!):
"Hi, I'm just leaving, but before I do, I really wanted to introduce myself to the woman who has such wonderful form. My name is David." She says something back, like "Oh hi, my name is Tracy," then you say something like "I hope to see you here again." Then you leave.
This creates an opening for you to talk to her next time you see her.
"Hi Tracy, how are you?" It also gives you a way of interacting with her for the first time without there being much risk--since you tell her up front you are leaving, she's less likely to be afraid of you wasting lots of her time--but you still show your romantic interest, making it harder for her to think of you as "just a friend."
It even builds your esteem, and teaches your nervous system that you can actually survive talking to beautiful women, which makes it more likely you'll do it again. In time this can even help you develop the confidence to ask for her number and email address. But for now, just try this much, you can build on it later.
I would suggest you learn up more tips and tricks from Ron Louis and David Copeland, dating coaches and authors of the best-selling "How to Succeed with Women" and creators of the tape series course, "The Mastery Program: Your Step-by-Step Course in Finding, Meeting, Dating and Seducing the Women of Your Dreams" and "Overcoming the Nice Guy Syndrome: How to Stop Being Shy without Becoming a Jerk."
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How To Ask
A Girl Out On Date
You met her, you talked to her, you got her number and, so far, everything is going great. But now comes that awkward point, …
How To Ask A Girl Out For Date
If it is a girl you are really interested in your mind might be filled with doubts and insecurities :
What if she says no ?
Am I trying to move too fast ?
Maybe she thought we were just friends and she will be offended if I ask.
All of these fears, although natural and common, are dumb. If you want a date with this girl you have the right to ask her out. Don't allow your life to be ruled by doubt and insecurity.
So what are the best ways to ask a girl out ?
There are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection (such as making a bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire your confidence.
Optimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone.
Avoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc.). Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN!" they also leave behind a paper trail that may or may not come back to haunt you.
One way to avoid looking like an idiot is to have something in mind to say for these three possible reactions to your question so you won't be caught off guard :
If she says "yes"
Have a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.
If she says "no"
Don't act shocked or offended. Just be like, "Alright." Then carry on the conversation as if you never asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a "no" personally and get ticked off. Girls don't admire or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may actually raise her interest.
If she says "some other time"
Have a plan B in case she is busy. If she still acts like she has too much to do it's probably because she's not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Accept it as a rejection and move on.
Of course, you go into it expecting her to say "yes" but it's, as with most things in life, it's important to be prepared for the worst.
Tips on how to ask a girl out
The real key to getting women to say "yes" when you ask for the date IS TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO YOU.
If a woman is attracted to you then why wouldn't she want to go out on a date with you ? It makes sense but most guys don't think of it that way... they miss the point and focus on "how to ask" rather than focusing on raising her attraction.
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How To Be
More Attractive
The image you portray to people is what either gets your foot in the door or gets the door slammed in your face. If you present yourself the right way to a woman, you stand a much better chance of success. If you present yourself the wrong way, you are going to get shot down time and again. This article is going to help you learn to present yourself as a winner and someone women will want to get to know.
Hair Style Idea for Man
The first thing people notice when someone approaches them is their face. Think of your face as a fine portrait. Every fine portrait has a stylish frame that compliments the portrait. Your hairstyle should compliment your face in the same way. To find the right style you should browse through the style books at any quality salon. Choose a couple of styles that you like and ask the stylist to help you pick one that will suit the shape of your face. Once you decide on the cut you need to follow the stylist's instructions on maintaining the look. For those men who are losing their hair...do NOT do "the swoop", just cut your hair very short or shave your head. A shaved head with a neat goatee and mustache is a look that many women find very sexy. Any facial hair should be trimmed, neat and regularly inspected for foreign objects.
Excessive Body Hair
While on the subject of hair, we should discuss excessive body hair. By this I mean hair on the back, shoulders and upper arms and back of the neck. Most women don't like this and some are even turned off by it. If this is a particularly troublesome problem for you, speak to the stylist who cuts your hair and ask about the different options you have in dealing with the excessive body hair. There are both temporary and permanent solutions that vary in cost.
You can get a good personal shaver to do the job.
One can't say enough about good hygiene. For most people, this is just common sense. However, there are some people who do need to be reminded that soap and water never hurt anyone. Keep your body free of any body odors, keep your hair clean and brush your teeth often. Make sure you don't have bad breath or smell badly. If you have this problem and don't address it, no amount of improvement is going to work for you. With this said, let's move on to something else.
Clothes for Man
Clothes...we all need them, so why not use them to add to your appeal to women? The most important things about your clothes is that they are clean, neat, match, fit properly and flatter you. Basically, you don't want to be seen in a torn and stained pair of jeans hanging down so low that the drywall guy comes up behind you and slaps spackle on your exposed buttocks. You also don't want to mix and match patterns so that you clash. If you are really in need of help in this area, find a female friend or relative to go shopping with you and help you out. Don't forget to have clean shoes that match your attire. For example, you shouldn't wear dress shoes and black socks with running shorts...use your common sense.
How many times have you been in the company of someone grouchy and negative? It's not much fun, is it? Don't be a downer. Smile a lot and keep a positive attitude and outlook. Don't complain about everything or put others down. Be fun and people will gravitate to you. Be miserable and people will run when they see you coming.
Many men make the mistake of trying too hard and coming across as desperate and needy. Women do like sensitive men, but with that sensitivity should come strength of character and a masculine presence. This doesn't mean you should be overly macho, just behave in a way that leaves no doubt that you are sure of yourself and in charge of your life. Don't forget good manners. Being courteous makes people see you as distinguished and a gentleman, which will always work in your favor.
Now that you have pulled your image together into a complete package, you need to practice presenting yourself to people. Be friendly to people you pass on the street by smiling and saying hello...male and female. This activity is to help you feel more comfortable approaching strangers. This will make it that much easier for you to walk up to that woman you want to get to know and strike up a conversation. Now get out there and show the world how great you are !
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How to Get
Woman's Phone
Number
I met this hottie at a bar and we chatted for a few minutes. Things were going well and we were really clicking fast so I asked her for her phone number.
She gave it to me…
Two days later I called her back, but no answer. The next day I called her again and she picked up… but her end of the conversation was stiff and it seemed like she was blowing me off.
Derek, what happened? At the bar she seemed interested. Where did I do wrong?
Raz
A lot of guys think that once they have a girl’s phone number, success!
Not so.
Just because you have a woman’s phone number, it doesn’t necessarily mean much. It’s quite possible that the girl took a liking to you, and you came across as cool dude. But a RANDOM dude nonetheless.
Sometimes women are flattered when they are asked for their number. So she gives it to you. Sometimes women feel too guilty and bad to say “no” because you seem like a cool guy and they don’t want you to think they’re a bitch.
Even if, in the moment, she gives you her phone number and she would like you to call her, it doesn’t mean that two days later when you DO call, that she’ll be in same headspace. The fire of the moment is gone and now she starts to rationalize reasons not to take your call.
That’s why most of the phone numbers that men get may be good for feeding their egos, but in reality are worthless pieces of paper.
You could go up to dozens of women, give them a compliment or ask for their opinion on something, and then get their number – but 90% of the numbers you would get this way would lead to dead ends and message machines.
So what’s the key to getting QUALITY phone numbers and not just quantity? Most throwaway phone numbers are a result of the man getting the number too fast.
First of all, if you’re at a bar and meet a girl, don’t talk to her for only five minutes and then jump for the phone number and leave thinking you’re going to score. After all, what’s the point of getting a phone number in the first place... to meet up later and continue the seduction, right?
But you had her right there at the bar, right THEN. You could have used that opportunity to seduce her right THEN. You were on a “date” with her right THEN. So getting a number so that you can meet up with her later, and walking away from the interaction in the moment is totally counterproductive and nonsensical.
Also, if you get her phone number without going through the proper preliminary steps, then yes, the girl might be digging you, but in reality you didn’t have enough social value to her for her to want to start an ongoing, dating relationship with you.
A girl who with a social value of 8 might give her number to you if she perceives you to have a social value of 6… but that doesn’t mean she’ll follow up with you. Phone numbers are only solid when you both have the same social value. If you both have the same social value, she’ll be WAITING and HOPING for you to call.
So BEFORE you get a woman’s phone number, you want to make sure that you have at least equal, if not more social value than her. That means having social proof if possible, using the nonverbal sexual cues, entertaining and leading her peer group, lowering her social value by temporarily ignoring her or teasing her, dressing well, ignoring social pressure, and so on… all the methods that build social value in a woman’s eyes.
Then, once she’s given you a few green lights, start screening her. If she passes your screening, accept her. Then isolate her if she’s not alone with you already.
NOW you can get her number.
Basically, if you want a SOLID phone number that will have the girl waiting and hoping that you'll call, don’t even both getting it until the girl has shown you a number of green lights and you’ve screened her and she’s tried to pass your screening.
What Works Better than Getting Phone Numbers
Instead of getting a woman's phone number, propose an “instant date” right on the spot.
After all, why would you meet up with her up later for a date when you could go on a date with her RIGHT NOW?
If you’re on a campus, invite her to go to the bookstore with you and have coffee.
If you’re at a bar, invite her to go to Denny’s restaurant for nacho chips with you.
If you’re at the mall, tell her you need some help picking out a shirt.
Or you can even instant date her to her apartment if it’s nearby – because you just have to show her your aquarium and the pirate crab with only one claw (or use whatever other excuse you can come up with).
When you score an instant date you’re no longer just “some guy she met at a bar” but rather you become “a guy she’s been on a date with”. To a woman’s mind, it’s a much stronger position for you to be in. If she declines the instant date, instead of getting a number, schedule your first date right then.
Say to her, “Well Thursday I’m busy because I promised my friend Jennifer I’d help her move… but Friday I’m going to be hitting the beach with some friends. You can come too, it’ll be a blast.”
Or tell her, “You like comedy don’t you. I’m thinking of going to this comedy show Friday night… I’ve been wanting to see it for weeks now and I hear the guy is hilarious. You’ll bust your ass laughing.”
Have a cool date idea prepared and ready to go BEFORE you go out so that you have something to fall back on in case nothing comes to your mind in the heat of the moment.
Also, try to couch it like you’re inviting her to something you were going to do ANYWAY, even if she wasn’t going to go with you. Couch it like you’re doing it is not dependent on her showing up. You ALREADY have a cool and exciting life and you’re just inviting her along for the ride.
Once you’ve scheduled the first date right there, THEN swap numbers.
Then it's natural to get her number so you can keep in touch with her if your plans to change. You're no longer getting her number to "date her". You're already dating!
Also feel free to call her up later and CHANGE the date plans on her. If you feel like it, call her up and change the day or what you’ll be doing. After all, you’re not tied to what you already specified by some mysterious law of the universe. Girls do this all the time to guys. And it just makes it look even more like what you’re doing isn’t dependent on her.
IF she resists going on an instant date with you, AND she won’t commit to setting up a date right there and then, then fall back on swapping numbers. However, this probably means that you didn’t build enough social value to her in the first place and most likely the number will not be worth the paper it’s written on.
In fact, if you played the seduction right, SHE should be volunteering HER number. You shouldn’t even have to ask for it.
Sometimes, just small tweaks in your methods can seriously UP the success of your game almost overnight.
Ditching the “quick number” strategy and knowing when and how to continue a seduction with a woman is only ONE of those tweaks.
There are HUNDREDS more.
And by knowing the rest of the scientific methods of seduction, you’ll learn how to build your social value so that women don’t just give you their numbers out of courtesy... but they give you their numbers because they pray at night that you, that super-sexy guy they met, call them.
And right now, there are thousands of beautiful women out there that have Seduction Science to thank for meeting a dream guy.
Why don’t YOU become one of those dream guys?
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